BOYS

Had an interesting and fun conversation with my colleague today.

I was about to go back.

Making U-turn.

And there, he was standing alone showing sign he's free and relaxed.

I was tired. Exhausted after long day in customer's factory.

I stop and pull down windscreen of my car.

Both of us showing sign, we can chat.

We started talking about our company's management, leadership, shitty people inside and all.

And then we go deep into the importance of psychology.

Till then, we are talking about boys girls courtship.

By the time I am driving back, my mind is full of useful information that I told myself it would help me to grow a great relationship someday.

From what I've read from a book titled "Act like a lady, think like a man", the main needs of a man is support, love, and cookies. And when a man really loves a woman, they will profess, provide and protect.

Today, my finding from the conversation is man needs freedom and a great amount of dignity. How true is this? I am still thinking.

To make a man buying things you want most, giving you tonnes of surprises, doing crazy things just for you, you'll need to know how to pull and push his heart. A man can love deeply, perfectly, but he will not have the drive to do anything to spice the relationship. On the other side, the woman is demanding wanting many things from the man. Having a man who loves her so much isn't enough. Woman wants to feel emotionally connected, emotionally triggered.

What a woman should do, is to rub her man's heart. The more rubbing the stiffer it became. LOL. You've got the idea. So...... good luck with that.

I will experiment and see how good I can go.

Yes, when a man is courting a woman. If the woman likes the man and feels he is good enough, she should show sign that she's fine with him. If she show sign she's off, the man will back off as well. So, at the courting stage the woman should show on and off sign of wanting this man even though she desperately want this man. This is to make things more difficult for the man for man loves challenges. Easy come easy go. Difficult to come, difficult to go. AHA.

Lastly, do not be afraid to reject sweetly. Do not be afraid to push away. But be smart not to push away too hard, careful not to make this man fall down and not come back anymore.

The more you are able to push away, and the more he is able to stand up and come back. You've got in control on this GAME.

Defeat or Victory. Yours to decide.