Better Be Single

Than to have a man who do not have time for me. Didn't you think is better for me to just stay single? What better life is it for me than to be with a man who don't have time for me yeah?

Extremely Tired

Been so long I had been complaining about the horrible complicated relationship I was stuck at. However it is, it seems like a never ending in the process. No matter how much I loved or cared, everything is just the same.

This is life. The same complaints I had been throwing over again and again on my job. When I finally found something better for myself, the feeling is really FANTASTIC.

Probably I will have to hang on first before the awesome feeling can come to me. Just be patience and stay extremely positive. My life may not be the good one like what others could easily be having.

There's a path meant for me to walk on. Just make it better if not the best I can. Stop all the useless drama. Ask what is needed. Cherish what I have.

Don't know how le. Sometimes just feel so tired and really feel like giving up since we had not started. To have someone who don't love me, I rather just love myself and avoid this kind of rubbish.

Hang on lo. What to do. What choices do I have. I can't just run away if he chase me down. There's reasons why I meet people like him. There's reason why this complicated relationship take place in my life. There must be reasons. He might be the one to grow old with.

Ending the Complication

Been so long staying complicated like this. Out of pressure, I complained it to my friends. What can be better.

I didn't build good friendship anymore because I intend to build good relationship. Sometimes I just feel so so sorry to get close with the wrong people.

However it is, I just pray that things are good for the people who loved me who cared me who tried to protect me in every way it is.

I guess I am changing as the time pass. I no longer have the desire like I had before. I no longer build any friendship, mix with anyone, talk with anyone. I became much selective and choosing only the people I think worth my time. I guess this is a sign of improved maturity in me?

I don't want to disappoint my friends and family anymore. I don't want to put down the people I cared about. True love is not hard to find, it is a matter of the right things being done. I had lost myself for a long period of time. Very much needed to be alone. Very much needed to stay away from everything and enjoy a good movie myself. Learn something for good. Stop socializing so much for good.

Just go with whatever life has to come. But keep up the values I would like to get as a result. I can't be keeping the same behavior in order to get some different result.

Things might mess up, but it is best for me to just be strong inside and enjoy whatever life has to come for me. To make this man treat me with respect, I will show him my silence. Silence is power. Silence is when he will do whatever you want of him.

Anyway, the fight is over I am back on my life. I am not much affected. Just that he don't shout at me so much anymore. Don't answer his call can mean better. Next time I will just off my cell phone and disconnect forever with him.

Win the Degree

Isn't that this paper is important?
How many of you would like to have this paper in your life?

Without this paper,wages will be RM800 to RM1000. And limited choice of job.
With this paper your wages range from RM1600 to RM3500. Wider range of job.

This paper is important for one to get a better paid job. And for the society, what do you think? It means Ohhhh you're a degree holder. Hmmm. You've got that paper.... You must be intelligent, smart, clever. You must know a lot of things I don't know. Your future must be bright. You're much respected. They simply look up at you. Funny huh how our society think...

However it is, I am very happy with RM1000 basic salary I get from working as Sales Executive after my STPM.

I like my job, and wanting to build my career from there. I decided to get this paper out from part time undergraduate program, so that I can still keep the job.

I find out all the needed information, and went to my father. Because I need to get his approval of attending college or school around the town. for this paper. I gave him the best proposal. Convinced him all I can.


Oh well, he listened patiently to my exciting powerful proposal and then he said, "You can only go to the university to get your degree and no where else. I do not wish to repeat myself, do you get what I mean?".

How much I disagree with him, and going to university, I still have to go. Reality takes place that every father has the right to be autocratic on their daughter's life if it means good to them.

Tonight, I am going to share with you, ladies and gentleman, how I play around to get the paper the society think is important. WIN THE DEGREE.

I am not very intelligent compared to others. However, I believe there's a genius in everyone of us to get what they want.

I suffered exam anxiety since STPM. Whenever exam is around the corner, I get migraine, I cannot sleep, I had bad dreams, I become nervous, change of appetite, I get hungry easily.  I can't catch my breath.

Conclusion:
I'm not saying this paper is useless, or this whole education system is wrongly designed. But pick yourself what you want out of life. What I want has nothing to do with getting all the engineering knowledge into my head. But this paper is able to open many doors. Some said this paper act like a passport, with passport you can enter many countries. With this paper you can enter many giant company. I am skillful at certain things in life which paper recognition is unable to label it. To others, this paper means a lot to them, and from this paper they get to where they want. At the end of the day it is all about what you want.

I go around earning a degree of not what I really want. I wasn't all sour about it because at the same time I look at the opportunity to grow myself to I learn how to get to what I need by figuring out the easiest way to reach the goal. In short, it is how you play with the game. I learn to work smart instead of work hard. I learn that there are many alternative routes to get things done or to survive as undergraduate, at the end is about meeting the objective set, win the degree.

Twenty Five

At a age, quarter age. Wanting to do a lot of things, energetic, didn't want to waste my time on useless things. But to really think about, what can I really do?

Without a guy who truly adores me. How can life be better? After watching friends with kids, I learnt that, there are many more out there living a life without a reliable partner in life. 

What can be better life for me? My job sucks, my relationship sucks. The only thing that don't suck is my family and friends. They remain goodly. 

Man in my life is so hopeless. Feel like stop dating and just being alone. Being completely single and see what's good for me then. 

Mom wanted to bring me to the fortune teller. I guess, the fortune teller won't help much. Why life is so poor on me now?

Nothing good seems to come. Pretty much changes I had made onto myself. But, relationship wise and career wise is still hopeless.

Will I really quit my job on September? Can I carry on further? I have no idea what my future holds. The only thing I firmly owned is MYSELF. 

All the dates that I went out with seems like a waste of time itself. The conversation within has more damage than growth. What's good with the date? We both enjoy ourselves together. Can that really last long? Ahhhhh I really don't know.

I feel extremely tired with all that. I don't feel good anymore. I don't feel like carry on anymore. Why keeping a man who don't really love me? Why still keep going out with him when you know already he is not showering love for you? Why still keep him? Why replying to all his message? Why didn't I insist to quit? I feel so so so tired to carry on this type of complicated relationship. 

What am I doing?

Going to work everyday, on a job I don't see my passion within. A job to get the month end pay just to live my comfortable life. 

For now, I'm pretty sure that my passion is speaking, socializing, and connecting with people. How can I transform this into a magnificent career and soar above the rest of the world?

Everyday I keep complaining and grumbling whenever I have chance on the unsatisfied career, unsatisfied daily life because of my job. Why am I not doing anything to make this life a better one?

Unsatisfied relationship. Why don't I quit and slowly build a new one? 

Unsatisfied job. Why don't I quit and slowly look for a better one?

I am wasting my time. Dragging so much of things. Suppose to do my speech last week, and also this Wednesday. But look like it is not happening. Because I am moving towards the unsatisfied relationship.

Relationship with man should be a pleasant one, one that make me feel happy because both of us having mutual attraction. What am I having now? Sometimes, I pity myself for not having a good man.

Religion and Dream

Jesus Christ build Christianity

Prophet Muhammad build Islam

Buddha build Buddhism

Suding will build Freethinking religion someday..

Where everyone who believes in it lead a good life at their own.

Robin sharma has formed a new religion.. it's a matter that. will he spread it wide enough to the world and create a syllabus where everyone will worship.

I got inspired of dreaming about building my own religion, during my free days at uni talking about the world with Sim.

I do not fall into any specific religion, because I am open to all learning from all sources. 

I have a desire, a very strong one, to build people. To build people effectively and efficiently. 

But I do not want to waste my energy on people who do not believe me and on people who are greedy. 

Core value, positive energy....

As an engineer graduate, I believe in energy.
Energy cannot be created and damaged according the the law of science.

but energy can be transformed from one source to another.

The mind is the energy transformer.

Lead without title.

Dream without limitation.

Getting Colder

I want to express my feeling and emotion here.

I realize I love people too deeply sometimes. I cannot bear to look back at pictures of people who will leave my life soon. Just make me tears..

I love many people in my heart. Deeply, truthfully, sincerely.
Father's day is here. I do not know what to do. I just know I think of my intense feeling of love for my daddy every single day. I pray to God, to allow my dad to be with us for as long as life allows. Let my dad be healthy so that he can does all he wants that can make him happy. For I need my daddy, more than anything in the world right now.